A common enemy?

I recently had a conversation with a colleague who works in a youth work setting. I explained my own interest in working with parents and carers in careers education and guidance and how, in my experience, this was a really tricky area. The difficulties seem to stem from some key issues that my colleague also recognised.

First there is the client centred approach that we all subscribe to. However, even if a parent or carer is not present in the class room (a rare occurrence I’ll admit) or in a guidance interview (less rare but not as common as some years ago) their influence, beliefs, expectations and input are most definitely there in the voice and attitudes of the young person themselves. The young person may not be aware of this and may believe themselves to be acting independently, and so might we.

Secondly there are our own attitudes and perspectives as professionals to the parents and carers of our clients. I can recall my reactions when a parent accompanied a young person in a guidance interview; a range of feelings from dread and anxiousness to warm collaboration depending upon the parent and the young person. Some parents might take over the interview so that the young person can’t get a word in. Others were defensive, demanding and even aggressive. However many were there because of their genuine concerns about their child, and a need to understand more about their options and next steps.

I have heard teachers voice similar tales and it may be that other professionals who work with children and young people share their concerns. However there is one thing of which I am sure; avoidance of engaging with parents is not an option. Their influence is there whether we choose to engage with it or not and the sooner we acknowledge this the sooner we will begin to find ways in which parents can be included in the tapestry that is the guidance process.

If you have comments or thoughts on this please let us know.

Anne Chant

The answer is ... 23

A few months ago we heard that applications to universities are up this year by 23%. We were told that the biggest proportion of the increase is in applications from mature students. I guess it could be that adults experiencing redundancy and unemployment are thinking "now's my chance to get that degree I've always wanted".

Around that time it was also revealed that 23% of students who start university courses drop out. This came as no surprise to me - as long as three years ago one of my sons used to tell stories of his fellow students dropping out of courses. These were often straight A students who had simply found themselevs on courses that did not turn out to be what they expected. Something that effective career guidance might have prevented. This is shocking when you think of how much a year at university costs these days, particularly if a student lives away from home. Probably approximately £10,000 (fees - £3500, accomodation - £3000, maintenance - £3000).

Neuroscience tells us that on average the human brain is usually fully developed by age 23, with cognitive skills of self evaluation being amongst the latest to develop. So ... if no-one went to university until they were 23, drop out rates could fall. Like that's going to work!

Barbara Bassot